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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, from this thread, we learn that women are all over the map on what they do and don't want in this regard. Generally speaking: don't be a dick, don't make things awkward, don't get mad if she expresses disinterest, and don't hit on everything that moves. [b]Otherwise, if you're interested, take your chance, [/b]be alert for social cues, and know that you're going to take your lumps if the woman happens to be one who is very disinterested in ever being approached. And everyone: let's be careful out there! [/quote]

Bad advice. It is smart to stick to an app. If the woman is on an app she is looking and will response back when or if she is in the mood/interested. If you are a guy worried about coming off creepy do not start anything in person even in an obvious pickup place. That is what apps are for. What one woman finds intriguing another will find creepy. It will largely depend on how attractive you are to her. Brady Pitt and Steve Buscemi can say and act the same but will get vastly different results. It is life.

Also remember most people are glued to their phones and do not want to interact IRL. If you approach someone who is really into to their phone in person they can get upset or uncomfortable.

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Don’t listen to the PP.  it is fine to approach a woman and talk.  If you are respectful and polite, the worst that can happen is she blows you off or isn’t interested.  Oh well.  No one is calling the police on you because you said hello out loud to them.  [/quote]

The only thing one can get from this thread is if men approach women a good percentage of the women will feel harassed or annoyed. So you are encouraging men to harass women?

But let’s face it there will be men who do not care or refuse to believe they can harass any of women…like the one posting above. [/quote]

It isn't harassing to start a conversation with someone.  Just stop.  If you feel harassed because a man say good morning to you or asks if the seat next to you at a coffee shop is free, you have issues.  [/quote]

Sorry dude, but if a guy asks to sit next to me at a coffee shop and then repeatedly tried to talk to me, it’s harassment.

It’s one thing if the entire shop is full and he’s just going to work in silence. But if there are open seats, or if he expects a conversation, not cool. I don’t owe men a convo. [/quote]

That’s not harassment. At all. And you can choose to leave. [/quote]

Are you serious?? Yes, sitting down next to a woman who does not want to speak to you, repeatedly trying to talk to her, and then expecting HER to leave if she doesn’t like it is textbook harassment. If you did that in a coffee shop and she complained, you’d get kicked out. [/quote]

Another PP made up the bit about approaching and not leaving alone, no one said that is what they would do.  It was said a man asks if the seat next to you is taken, you say yes or no or you’re busy, he moves on.  THAT is not harassment.  [/quote]

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