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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Prior to my long term relationship that I’m in now, I have always done very well approaching women and I’ve been pretty direct about it, could care less what the women in this thread say because it has worked for me amazingly and have been fortunate to have great memories with women over the years (not just sex, I genuinely enjoyed dating and “the hunt” when I was single, as well as getting to know people / learning about them, sex too though let’s be real)

[b]“Girl with the blonde hair, I was actually just on my way to the grocery story, but I saw you and I thought you were adorable with your (something she’s wearing) and I had to come risk it all”[/b] or something along those lines say it in a confident but kind of joking or funny way like you aren’t taking the situation too seriously or that you know there is some comedy inherently involved in Hitting on a random girl in the street. Then quickly change subject to asking her name and introducing yourself, then transition to normal conversation about your day, what she’s up to, the city, whatever just normal conversation. If she thinks you’re hot and you have a good vibe she will stay and chat and you can ask for her number. If she doesn’t you should be able to take the hint and leave her alone. Every time I would move to a new city, it took me all of a day to start going on dates with pretty girls by doing this.[/quote]

Oh god, that’s so cringe. Are you, what, pulling over in your car to say that to women walking down the street?[/quote]

It's cringe to you because you probably know that you can't get away with it either because you give off bad vibes via lack of confidence, crappy body language, bad tone of voice, ugly (sorry but its a factor) or something else that makes you come off weird. Luckily for you, these are things that can be worked on. I just told you that it has worked great for me over the years, but I'm sure you'll post some clap back indicating that it must not be true "just because"

And of course I've never pulled over in a car to say that to a woman walking down the street, that's Asperger's level social IQ.  Back when I was single I lived in a neighborhood (between logan circle and shaw) where I would come across good looking girls going about my daily business, and well, if you see something say something. I actually met my fiance at Whole Foods on P st. off of a random approach and we still joke about it :lol:

At the end of the day, it really depends on two main factors: 1) the woman. some women want to be approached in public and dont want their entire dating pool to be from Bumble. Some women in this category are ok with bars only and draw the line at just generally going about their business, but some are ok anywhere. My view is you don't know unless you try, just be respectful and good at reading her and if she doesnt want to talk to you respect that and leave 2) the approach and the overall vibe. If you approach all weird, say weird stuff, seem low confidence, have a bad / creepish vibe, or generally are bad looking which adds to a bad vibe, its not going to work out good for you and you can either work on fixing those things or stick with Bumble. [/quote]

...I’m a DP who is happily married and routinely approached. It’s extremely cringe. [/quote]

Great, so you prefer online dating to meeting people in person[/quote]

Reading comprehension also not taught on PUA boards I see[/quote]

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