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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I just don’t get this. Wouldn’t you rather tell people the truth rather than they think it was your fault or you just gave up on your marriage? [/quote]

Who cares what they think? [/quote]

Well they do clearly. I was responding to the posters who claim that they are vague about the reason for fear of being judged/blamed. If I know your husband cheated, then I blame him. If you say “we drifted apart” then I blame you both. [/quote]

If you “blame” anybody without, you know, actual information, that’s being kinda stupid.[/quote]

NP.  I agree with PP.  Knowing the truth about a person is a good thing as it helps you further your understanding of what kind of person that is.  what's so bad about knowing, especially if that person is a cheater/abuser etc.[/quote]

Because people might not want to spread their business all over town.  And they might be trying to be good co-parents, because your kids probably REALLY don't want this stuff being spread all over.  It's not really anyone's business; I tend not to assume that I know anything about anyone's marriage.  [/quote]

If children are involved I assume something serious and untenable happened.

That's fine if they don't want to talk about it or send some BS co-parenting email out, but no ones buying it. [/quote]

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