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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, very few folks are recognizing OP’s point - women have been conditioned to cook and clean and they have internally that they enjoy it. Dads generally feel free to hang out except if they feel like playing with the grill occasionally. Patriarchy is alive and well in this country. [/quote]

My dad doesn’t just grill. He makes pancake breakfasts, and also loves making old-fashioned casseroles because my mom doesn’t like them/doesn’t make them. So we would always get excited when dad was making a big tuna casserole or turkey tetrazzini.

My husband makes pies, including his own pie crusts. He’s so particular about them that he has three special ceramic pie pans from his grandmother that are among his most prized possessions.

I have an uncle who makes his own pasta, and even does so now that he has Parkinson’s.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but lots of people love to cook. Which is why there are food sections in the newspaper, countless food and wine magazines, entire sections of the library dedicated to food and cooking, entire TV networks and shows dedicated to food, not to mention Williams Sonoma, Eataly, etc. Are you blind, deaf and dumb that you don’t get that love of cooking is real, is universal in every culture, and is a multi-billion dollar industry? It’s not just grandma in the kitchen, sweetie.[/quote]

there’s tons of actual research showing that women do a disproportionate share of domestic labor. for every dad who supposedly loves cooking there are 10 more watching TV while mom cooks and cleans. and of course so many “dads who cook!!” are expecting a medal for making a single pancake breakfast (likely leaving all the dishes for the women) and rests on his laurels while the women handle the other 10 meals. [/quote]

here you go: women spend 30 more minutes a day cooking and cleaning the kitchen than men.

https://www.bls.gov/tus/charts/household.htm[/quote]

What’s your point?

OP literally asked us “ladies” why we spend time in the kitchen.

Answer: WE LIKE TO COOK. As do many of our husbands, brothers, fathers, male ILs, etc.

If you don’t want to cook, pour yourself a bowl of cereal and move on with your day.

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