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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds like a status trap. Your high status job is making it harder for your family to reasonably discuss tradeoffs due to loss aversion. If you had a lower paying job, it would be easier to justify staying at home because of the cost of childcare. This problem is fixable even in a high cost area due to your combined resources. Mommy track, part-time, later in-house, better outsourcing of labor. Yet, you two might not solve this problem, and might not have another child. You literally might have a harder time reaching compromise then people with less means, which is sobering to think about. You have more options to figure this out. [/quote]
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