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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell me about it. Today I made sure the dog had her meds after her spay surgery, registered one kid for soccer, sent in the final paperwork for the other one's aftercare at ES, dealt w/a pharmacy issue, emailed vendors for the older one's bat mitzvah, paid an outstanding medical bill, cleaned the bathroom, wiped down kitchen counters, made meals.  All while holding down a full time job throughout the day. And what did my husband do? took the younger one to swim practice. Whoop dee doo. I've come to accept. He basically accomplishes one task a day and that's winning for him. Cannot multitask to save his life. [/quote]

Pretty much the same. I’ve given up. If I complain and ask for help with something, the ensuing tantrum “but I worked all dayyyyy” (so did I!) “but I work haaaaarder!” (No, not really.)  takes up more energy to deal with than just doing it myself in the first place. He could not tell you who the kids’ pediatrician is, where the vacuum is kept, nothing. If I complain about him not walking the dog even 1/4 of the time compared to my 3/4- fireworks and I’m sorry I ever said anything. Could’ve taken the dog on 4 walks in the time it took to deal with his fit. He genuinely has no idea what needs to be done around the home, and becomes furious if I ask for help or complain about anything. long ago given up. [/quote]

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