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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Wow. I really can’t believe some of the posters on here.

Do you really think it’s harmless fun if *you* were surrounded by a group of larger men, and when you tried to escape, one grabbed your butt?

I was assaulted at the pool as a pre-teen, and it often starts with a butt pinch or something just as “innocent”. As boys learn they can get away with it, they push for more and more. Most of my female friends have similar stories.

My H is LEO, and you bet he would take this seriously and teach those boys a lesson they wouldn’t forget. He sees the predators they grow into every day. [/quote]
Exactly. I am floored by some of the answers here but given how common sexual assault is, it's not shocking.  I think some people really think that it always involves some creep hiding in the bushes. The same young teens who are touching girls without consequence can easily become the same older teens/men who end up doing much worse.  My guess is that some of the same fools who don't think this is a big deal blame women for their assaults.  [/quote]

I am nit defending butt pinching by any means, but you all are trivializing sexual assault through your careless use of language.  Words have meaning, and calling a butt pinch sexual assault is GD ridiculous.[/quote]
Sexual assault does not mean only rape.  Touching someone/butt pinching is sexual assault.  It’s not a matter of opinion.  Look up the legal definition of sexual assault. [/quote]

Yes I know the definition.  Explain to me how you know the butt was pinched in a sexual manner?  Especially with kids?  Again, I am not saying it’s ok to do but I can just picture someone in some sort of support group dramatically describing the trauma of the time when they were 11 and that 13 year old pinched their butt.

And seriously, stop blaming the entire group of boys for what one boy did.  Maybe the other boys didn’t even know he did it?  And yes DD should have called him out or let her dad do it, but don’t give her a victim complex by acting like drama llamas.[/quote]
These were young teens but nine year olds.  Are you serious?  You don’t think they understand that touching someone’s butt is sexual? The excuses…[/quote]

Do you think if high school football players slap each other’s butts that it’s sexual as well?[/quote]
Are you comparing that with boys circling a girl and pinching her butt?  [/quote]

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