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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your cousin sounds like my SIL.  It's all great when people are doing things for her.  Cooking, feeding her kids, looking after them, cleaning up their mess after meals while she does whatever she pleases.

She made plans for her and BIL to go fishing one evening just the two of them.  They sat and made their plans in front of us.  When my nephew asked "who is taking care of us?" nobody said a word.  I watched SIL's face, she was not pleased.  They did not go fishing.  She did the same thing when she wanted to go drinking with her friends.  Nobody jumped in and offered to watch the kids.

We stopped going to the family get together.

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Yes, I have a sister like this. Very entitled. She feels everyone owes her things, but feels no need to reciprocate or even worse she buys you some junk you don't want thinking she made up for it. We cook all meals, clean, watch kids and here is an ugly mug...now we are even. We distanced ourselves after she was quite offended and latitda when we made it clear we were not the maid service and chefs and everyone pitches in. Same thing happened with not one, but 2 of her friends. She would not pitch in one iota and both on different occasions stopped inviting her to visit. She ranted about rude they were to expect a guest to help out when she invited herself to their places.[/quote]

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