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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a SAHW, OP. I feel this way at least 5 out of 7 days but I work to tamp down those feelings because I know DH and kids are depending on me. Everyone desires financial and family stability but no educated person wants to focus on serving others -- even beloved children or partners -- in a menial capacity for decades. If your DW could enjoy nearly the same standard of living without having to live the lackey life, why would she not try to seize the chance to change? She does not care about the cleanliness of your underwear or your latest squabble with a colleague, and is tired of pretending.[/quote] Triple this if you are rarely saying thank you, or showing gratitude or appreciation or even listening to her daily.[/quote] The PP Sounds super pathetic. If you want something else go for it don’t just blame everybody around you because you don’t have it. The kids don’t need you 24 seven. Your husband can do his own freaking laundry. The kids can toO actually. You feel worthless because everything you do has little to no value anymore you’re doing stuff for people they can do it for themselves and probably stunting their growth since you do it for them. Figure out what you wanna do with your life and do it but stop blaming others[/quote] Wake up. That’s exactly what she is doing. She’s done with the current BS arrangement. She’s prob at peace with the “worst case” scenario: 50/50 custody If Op is truly a delinquent father they should mediate and do 80/20 or give her full custody and work out his visiting rights. [/quote] You live in a fantasy world nobody said the dad is delinquent. She is selfish. She is not going to “make things happen”. She’s just going to be the same pathetic person but single.[/quote]
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