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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Sounds like you didn’t realize you were marrying into families that party and gather long into the night. It’s considered extremely rude to leave in just two hours no matter who you are because family time is precious.

It’s not a standard thing that a 2 hour family visit is rude. For local family that we see often, 2 hours is PLENTY!!!! It’s weird if people stay longer! Stop assuming all families are the same. OP was there all day. Leaving g at 8:20 is not rude.[/quote]

OP was there for more than six hours (2 pm to 8:20 pm). She's watching the clock because she requested they leave by 7:30 AND because spouse has a history of insisting they stay until 11 pm at night or longer.

Look OP your husband and his family think they are normal and you are being rude. You are not,but you are not going to change their (dysfunctional) ideas of what is socially acceptable. Stop worrying about whether you are rude. THe issue is that you've tried to set reasonable boundaries and your spouse and his family ignore them and insult you in the process.

I think it would be a gift to you if your spouse divorced you over this.

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