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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Am I being unreasonable? If I looked at the time a bit, was that worth him telling me I "embarrassed him in front of his family?"

I responded by asking if he was embarrassed :roll:  his sister treats me so poorly?
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I mean, we only have your description of events but it does sound like you were watching the clock, trying to rush everyone through the meal, and generally making it clear you didn't want to be there.   I would be embarrassed if my husband did that at my parents' house.  But looking at this particular night in isolation misses the point.[/quote]

agreed. while your clockwatching behavior may have indeed embarrassed your husband you need to step back and look at the big picture. Your husband prioritizes his birth family and he doesn't value you. His willingness to name call, threaten divorce, dismiss your feelings, refusal to step in when SIL is being a dick and generally allows himself to veer into abusive territory so easily is what you need to focus on here. Who cares about the one evening at his parents'? His family doesn't like you or value you, your husband has shown through his actions that they are more important to him. What else do you need to know? Do not have a child with this man and you need to begin divorce proceedings. Next time he threatens to leave (and he will because once he's broken past that barrier it will be easier and easier to unsheathe that weapon), let him. By the way, do you spend time with your family as a couple? [/quote]

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