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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Am I being unreasonable? If I looked at the time a bit, was that worth him telling me I "embarrassed him in front of his family?"

I responded by asking if he was embarrassed :roll:  his sister treats me so poorly?
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I mean, we only have your description of events but it does sound like you were watching the clock, trying to rush everyone through the meal, and generally making it clear you didn't want to be there.   I would be embarrassed if my husband did that at my parents' house.  But looking at this particular night in isolation misses the point.[/quote]

She talked to her husband previously and told him she wanted to leave at 7:30. He refused to discuss it with her. Not wanting to be there is entirely legitimate in this situation, and if he doesn't like it, he should feel embarrassed that he wouldn't talk to her about this earlier and come up with a plan. At this point, I would assume that he is getting something from the dynamic where his wife fails to meet his family's expectations and that gives him a reason to criticize her. Otherwise, why set her up like this? This is not someone who is trying to minimize conflict and solve problems. [/quote]

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