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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I might be in the minority, but I think if you’re unhappy and think you can find/create a better life for yourself and your kid after divorcing this guy then, do it.  If this is where you are now, you’ll eventually get divorced or cheat on him. [/quote]

However, there is no guarantee you will find a husband who meets all of your qualifications. You, as a human, also have flaws. If you divorce, you will be a single mom who is likely paying alimony and child support. You might find more ambitious and high achieving men who are not that great with your daughter, who want more kids with you, who have their own kids, who have exwives to deal with. They might not have personalities you like, or compatible life goals, or limited things in common. They might want you to compromise more, or be higher achieving. You are trading the devil you know for the devil you don't.

I have a lot of friends who are singles moms. They are happy and content. But they are not dating much.[/quote]

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