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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you basically just had a child with the guy, but now have so little respect for him that you want to leave him? Was his weight, lack of job ambition, etc. not an issue a couple years ago?

You should look into psychological help. Don't listen to the loser who has posted a bunch of responses here urging you to just get a divorce and not worry about your daughter.[/quote]

If she feels contempt, this will not change. Staying in this situation will make it worse later—for everyone, including the kid. [/quote]

Nonsense.  You can absolutely change even if you feel contempt.  She will never have a successful relationship until she understands this.[/quote]

This is not true. If there is contempt, it is usually too far gone. [/quote]

I speak from experience when I say I once had contempt for my husband and when I realized it was a ME problem and stopped it, everything got better, including his “problems” like his weight and his career.  It’s amazing what people can do when their spouse treats them with love and respect and support.[/quote]

Okay, so in your situation the problem was you. In most cases it is fundamental incompatibility that causes contempt. And best to divorce and not continue misery. It is over when love and respect is gone due to lack of a shared live and lack of a shared vision and basic incompatibility building a life. That does not sound like that was a problem for you. It is for OP. [/quote]

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