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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I'm not the OP of the thread. But what's strange to me about this PP's post is, why would you ever have an affair if you had a shred of love left for your DH, enough that you'd want to stay with him? I think most women, myself included, who get to the point of having an affair are DONE with their husband and permanently turned off by him but just don't want to break up their children's home. I think the fact that PP apparently still had love for her DH and cheated on him anyway makes her far more sociopathic and unethical, regardless of whatever therapy she has since done.[/quote]

1. You are a complete coward.
2. You are wrong.  Many people who have affairs do it just because they can, and believe they will never get caught.

You claim you are staying for your kids - what you are teaching your kids is that it’s ok if your word means nothing and that it’s ok to lie and cheat.  The damage you will inflict on them when your affair is discovered is much worse than if you acted like a mature adult and divorced your husband, or at least told him that you refused to be faithful.[/quote]

I can't imagine how damaged the kids are or going to be with these horrible parents.

If she stays with AP she shouldn't be allowing him around her kids. Their not even married so it may not last. The former DH sounds like he has various gfs around them as well. Both are irresponsible idiots.  My daughters friend had a mother who did something similar. Her kids gossiped to their friends, my daughter told me because I didn't recognize the dad when he answered the door. Also, her kids hated his so it was a big mess.  Take note parents your kids tell others everything! My niece told me how their mother broke up a marriage with 3 kids! Told me the entire ugly story![/quote]

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