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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It doesn't matter what you do, if she wanted to have sex with you, she would. She clearly doesn't. Sometimes she is so horny she is willing to let you have sex with her, but she has not attraction to you. You can't teach attraction, if sex is important to you, you will never get it in this relationship.[/quote]

This is the truth for a lot of women. They just lose attraction to their husbands. My wife feels the same. She finds me attractive but is not sexually attracted to me. Like how you would feel about a family member, you can see they are conventionally handsome but not in a sexual way.

I have thought about shelving the sex part entirely so when I cheat I won't feel bad. We still do it once, maybe twice a season. And no, it wasn't always like this. We had a great sex life for years but it stopped with the second nd kid and got worse from there.[/quote]

Losing attraction or realizing that she doesn't have to have sex to maintain her status. Men do not want to accept that they were pawns in a game and loss. [b]No one wants to cheat with you other than the few married women in sexless marriages.[/b] When men realize this, they turn toward divorce.[/quote]It's more than a few.  You really have no idea.  The numbers are nearly equal.  I never had any problem finding a woman for sex when I decided to cheat.  To my surprise, half the the ones I found were not married.[/quote]

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