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[quote=Anonymous]Op she is pretty so what, she doesn't have any original ideas, she lacks imagination or creativity, she has to copy others because she can't think of anything herself.  As you get older, looks don't matter but creativity does.

Be so glad that you have your own interests that are genuine and that you are your own person.

You are stuck in this loop of competition with your sister and wouldn't be great to opt out and just enjoy your life rather be stuck in this thing with her.

I would stop telling her personal info about you.  Don't tell her when you are planning on getting pregnant, no baby names, no idea on how you are decorating the nursery, where you are going on vacation, next job idea, house renovations, hobbies, simply nothing.

Do things at your own pace and keep being interested in your hobbies and things you enjoy.

Perhaps down the track she will grow out of it, or you may find you both end up doing similar things because that's where you are in life.

Keep in mind baking/cooking is hugely popular at the moment and I don't think she is having her wedding there because its an interest of hers, she just knows it will look great, perhaps like someone else said she's a Bridgerton fan, she can't think of a place herself so took your idea.  Again she couldn't think of these things herself so in some ways pity her lack confidence and imagination.[/quote]

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