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[quote=Anonymous]For those of you recommending OP talk with her father about his financial circumstances and demand he consider his adult children first, I suggest you add another topic during that discussion: His potential care issues. If your father becomes seriously ill, hospitalized/needing after care, permanently disabled or demented, what are YOUR plans to take care of him? When he can no longer drive safely, cook a meal, or becomes incontinent, who will be meeting his needs? Plan as though his wife is not there, so everything must be outsourced and paid for. I imagine that will quickly eat away at the inheritance which is expected. The automatic assumption is his wife is a gold-digging harpy, who is awaiting his ultimate demise with glee over all the riches she will receive. Yet the irony is that the vast majority of second spouses are not gold-diggers, and many spend years doing care-giving without any acknowledgment. [/quote]
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