Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Off-Topic
Reply to "Wives of physicians--dealing with loneliness"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]We all have a responsibility and choice in how we approach life. Sitting around and feeling sad because you are “lonely” isn’t going to improve anyone’s life. Your husband works long hours. That’s just a fact - military spouses and many others gave this, too. Figure out what you want your life to look like and make it happen. It’s not your spouse’s job to fulfill every need. My spouse needed to commute internationally for 2 years and traveled for 2-3 weeks at a time. Was it traditional? Not - but the kids and I made the best and we had a very full life when he was gone. And we enjoyed it immensely when he was home. Complaining about it would have nothing to make the situation better. OP, you should really think about what is important to you and make it happen (hobbies, travel, volunteer, book club, exercise communities, faith communities, etc.). Sitting around being resentful of your spouse literally doesn’t do anything to make the situation better. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics