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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I had the affair, my spouse stayed. Appearances are important and he's big on inertia and no changes. None of the reasons why I looked outside the marriage have improved. We are working on a separation plan.[/quote] You need therapy. There are no “reasons”, especially ones that are the responsibility of your spouse, that should cause you to cheat. Your DH is smart not to reconcile with you - you need to own your choices and recognize that you had other (better) choices than cheating. You have a character defect that you need to fix.[/quote] Neither of us wants to reconcile. He's not interested in being an equal partner or sharing emotional intimacy. You're right, I should have left years ago but it's easier now that the kids are older. Just keepin' it real.[/quote]
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