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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD isn't "fast"
She has straight As doesn't drink
She did have a BF starting at age 14 however and began having sex with him at 15
She didn't end up pregnant or grades going down or doing drugs. 
She isn't dating him anymore or anyone (covid and not going anywhere).
But they aren't all linked. We have liberal views about sex and dating. 
But we don't about drugs or getting wasted or bad grades. So she stays in what we've created as her lane.[/quote]

You can call it whatever you want, but a child having sex at 15 is fast. That is not healthy age-appropriate behavior based on our societal norms. The fact you’ve decided that’s the lane you’re creating in your household doesn’t change that. Any parent that hears this info about your daughter, and the fact this is an acceptable norm in your household, wouldn’t want their kid anywhere near yours.[/quote]

Is this for real?  A 15 year old having sex with a same age peer she's been in a long term relationship with is very much the definition of age appropriate. Sure, we as parents would like them all to wait until 18, but did any of us wait that long by choice?[/quote]
 :roll: 
Their bodies may be mature for sex, their emotions and brain cannot handle the long term impact of having sex too early. Are you for real? You sound like a very irresponsible person. [/quote]

I think you're the same person dictating what's age-appropriate from above. And I'm one of the posters who responded negatively to your opinion-based sermonizing. Again, please, tell us your source for saying this person is acting in ways that are emotionally inappropriate? Or did you just read this in "convenient theories for me" in the section of the Bible where Jesus talks about sex? [/quote]

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