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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Looking the other way means accepting it and letting it go on.

People ha e this confused with somebody who discovers it or whose spouse confesses and they kick them out, go to therapy and do work—/but in no scenario is cheating condoned, ignored or something that isn’t instant divorce if ever done again.

Two completely different circumstances.

I know many strong, accomplished people that don’t need $, are highly attractive and choose to work on making a good marriage going forward.

So, no, I would never tolerate it or look the other away or have a DADT relationship.  But, I can’t say what I would do if everything was perfect, it was a strong loving marriage, good sex, and I found out there was cheating.  That would all depend on so many circumstances and actions of the cheater.[/quote]

This.

Who in their right mind would ever just tolerate it?  I have to assume if they do they don’t have the financial means to leave, never worked.

I might not divorce, but that would be the f@cking end of it.  He would also need to display incredible remorse and have his @ss in individual therapy to get to the root cause.  This is if everything else about the relationship/family was great and we had a good sex life.  But, if there ever were a next time no- not a chance in h@ll.[/quote]

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