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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The truly undesirable settle for what they can get. There are a lot of unattractive and unpleasant people in marriages and long-term relationships. There is a subset of people who are single by circumstance and not because of any personal dealbreaker flaws, and they probably would have lots of options in a different city or among a different social group. People who remain single by choice are some of the best catches out there.[/quote]

This times 1000.

Y'all act like every married person on the planet is completely emotionally healthy and issue free. Hate to break it to you, but undesirables exist all over, married, single, whatever. Some of the most screwed up, emotionally challenged people I know are married. Like my friend who called me this weekend who told me she was seriously considering getting a divorce because her husband only make $175k a year and could be making more and she doesn't want to be tied to that long term. Or my engaged friend who was so hopelessly, miserably sad and lonely he proposed to the first girl that came around who was single and also liked dogs and is now cutting her off from all her friends and non-relationship activities because he wants them to do everything together ALL the time.

Some things just happen, and not because you are a bad person or have issues or anything. Life circumstances, timing, luck, not wanting to settle for meh just to be married. 
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