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Reply to "Flame Me: I don't think affairs are generally a big deal"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it depends on what kind of marriage you have. A lot of people have a more transactional kind of marriage (having children and a spouse's salary). DH and I were/are crazy in love. It would devastate either one of us and we'd be more upset with the emotional side of it versus the physical act of the affair.[/quote] This is us. [/quote] +1 We didn’t settle. It was head over heels, can’t live without you at age 25 (even though we both thought prior we’d wait until 30 to get married). We both also have good careers so staying together was not a financial consideration on either party’s part. It’s fairly common to meet couples that settled, checked off boxes on a list and made a “good enough” rationalization, particularly when clock was ticking. I think this is the more common scenario in this area which is why there are so many pro-affair posters.[/quote]
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