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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ it’s the cart before the horse.  The cheater is often an @Sshole at home and alienates the spouse through his/her actions such that resentment builds before they even step outside to look for sex.  If they were t such flaming, critical @ssholes they’d be getting laid and not have to lie to a stranger with their fake facade.[/quote]
Playing back the sequence you just gave:
a) Spouse #1 is an asshole
b) Spouse #2 stops wanting sex with the asshole
c) Spouse #1 now steps out for sex

If your theory is true, then [b]Spouse #2 surely would just divorce the asshole l[/b]ong before Step c) right?

Maybe you will now claim Spouse #2 decides (for various reasons like ... money) to stay married to the asshole.
Why does Spouse #2 care that Spouse #1 is having an affair.. they are already an asshole, so what is the difference?
In fact, the affair makes Spouse #1 much less of an asshole than they would be without an affair, thereby benefiting Spouse #2.

Your logic makes no sense, at best it proves the theory that affairs save sexless marriages.[/quote]

Failure to see fault in your domineering a@shole behavior.  Key.

You try to address the issues before you make a unilateral decision to stick your d@ck in someone outside the marriage.  Marriage means working on things and not lying and deceiving and endangering a spouse’s health.  It would also be helpful to know the ebbs and flows in a life-ling marriage.  They all have ups and downs and it’s how you deal with that.  If you had horrible parental role models it’s clear why you wouldn’t understand.[/quote]

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