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Reply to "Long term affair... trying to wrap my head around if it’s even possible to get over your DH’s 3 yr "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - there is no reason you should *try* to get over the affair In fact, it's unhealthy of you to even consider that. You need to get your children out of this situation, this farce of a marriage. That is the only course of action Truly think it's highly irresponsible of you to do anything other than divorce. Now.[/quote] Years ago I would have advised the exact thing. However, I don't know her finances or health. Either way she needs to sock money away and see a lawyer to get an idea of where she would stand upon divorce. Honestly, I would despise him after that and never have sex. The marriage is done, and dirtied by him and the W, but he may be the higher earner with the insurance and who knows what. I'd pretend to forgive him though to buy me time on what I want to do, or get myself in a better position. After that kind of betrayal you need to put yourself first. [/quote]
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