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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So sorry that happened to you, OP. I know people like this and [b]in fact am friends with some people like this.  The ones who exclude, and gossip and badmouth about others.  To some extent, it is very common and I think it's part of human nature unfortunately.  And I always keep them at arm's length, and never trust them completely.  I don't invest in those relationships, but I also don't avoid them, as I do get a lot out of those relationships too.[/b] And frankly, if you avoided everyone like this, you'd be left with very few people to socialize with and collaborate with and whatever with.

There are friends and family that I have that I trust completely, but I can count them on one hand.  The ones who lift you up, the ones who you can trust completely, the ones who I hope will be with me to the end of my days.  You need to focus on these relationships and keep an eye out for these kinds of friends.[/quote]

OK I'll bite: What do you get out of those relationships, since you say you're getting "a lot"?

Also, do you self-identify as an honest person? Would you describe yourself as a user or opportunist? [/quote]

Exactly.  Like hangs with like.

OP, you truly are missing nothing but a bunch of shallow, gossipy hags who think they are hotter than they are.  This isn't high school, and they have no idea - least of all how to have enough self respect to know the [b]basic[/b]s (see what I did there? LOL) of how to treat people.

Basic, indeed - the epitome of basic. [/quote]

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