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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] And 
Help with the homework 
Make lunches 
Do the bills 
Make and take kids to doctors’ and dentist appointments 
Research and make travel arrangements 
Work out the summer camp /other coverage 
Shop for kids’ clothes 
While working out, getting hair or whatever else done and staying on a strict diet so that despite menopause you make sure not to gain any weight or look any older than you did when you met DH[/quote]

You left out taking the time to get the air in your tires rotated. You are choosing to prioritize “research and make travel arrangements” and doing the bills. That’s your choice to put sex with your husband last, and then it’s his choice to deprioritize you. Cause, effect.

And we’re supposed to feel sorry for you because you need to watch your weight? What do you think the rest of us are doing?[/quote]

Whatever.  No man wants to put the air in the tires of his wife’s car or buy clothes for his kids.  
He doesn’t want her to make sex a higher priority and make these things lower priority.  He doesn’t want to trade taking some things off her plate. He wants her to do all of this AND be up for sex.  The only things most men want their wives to make a lower priority are their careers (if it doesn’t come with significantly more money) and their free time.  
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Lol, bitter much? I always check the tires in my wife's car before I leave for work if they look low. I've filled them countless times that she doesn't even know about. I don't shop for DD's clothes because it's something that DW and DD love doing as part of their mommy/daughter days (during which I often catch up on household stuff despite DW's insistence I go do something for myself). I put her career at a high priority because she's good at it and loves what she does, and am proud of her for it. If there's laundry to be done, food to be cooked, dishes to be washed, I just do it. Sometimes it's because she's running DD back and forth to activities or buying groceries, sometimes it's because she really wants to catch up on one of her shows or books. Doesn't matter.

Sorry you didn't marry a man like that.[/quote]

You really cannot do the one thing that your wife asks of you and insists that you do?  Seriously, man.  She sounds like a nice lady.  What’s wrong with you?    [/quote]

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