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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This certainly has been a polarizing issue. Maybe, just maybe, the girl didn't technically have to tell the OP anything and the OP equally has a right to how he felt about her sleeping with someone else while she was seeing him. Why is so necessary that one of them be the bad guy/girl? [/quote]

Exactly.  The problem came from OP's phrasing of the question/title "Girlfriend cheated on me."

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Agreed, OP should not have phrased it that way.

When I first met my DW, I was already involved in a casual sex relationship with another girl. Because our paths didn't cross often, I ended up deciding to get serious with DW before I got the chance to sleep with the other girl again. I certainly didn't owe my future DW any explanation, but I decided that I wanted to put the info on the table ASAP after we decided to get serious so that the exact situation the OP is facing didn't happen. DW was a little bothered by it, but she soon got passed it because we were still just deciding to get serious as opposed to being at the point of deciding to spend our lives together.

I just did what I would have wanted her to do if the roles were reversed. And for the record she had slept with another guy days before our first real date. She told me about that around the same time for the same reason. So when we actually reached the point of realizing we wanted to get married, all of that was way past us.
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