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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and now occasionally physically abusive. He drinks excessively. He makes me suicidal. Then he gaslights the hell out of me and, just when I've decided THIS TIME FOR SURE WE ARE DONE, he goes back to being normal and loving. For a little while, at least. Just long enough for me to lose out on that perfect rental I secretly found.[/quote]

Please read the book “Stop Walking on Eggshells” by Randi T. Mason... it will open your eyes. You are describing the bare basics of my ex, my therapist suggested I read that book and it was life changing. Reading it gave me the strength to stand up and leave and now I am happily married and am shocked on a daily basis how amazing my partner is and how much I was shorting myself on a healthy loving relationship the longer I stayed with my ex. The suggestion of this book led me to reading others that are similar and at 31, it was the is flow most valuable piece of advice I’ve ever received. He’s a narcissist and likely a sociopath and there is nothing you can do to change it. Mine was also an alcoholic so that added a bit as well.[/quote]

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