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[quote=Anonymous]Typical DCUM bs again

Again to answer the question

It's because it has been this way for decades
You need to have serious talks before getting married and having kids
There ARE biological differences between men and women with child rearing especially when the kids are young

Now here is the main point, it's hard to break habits.  When the kids is say about 3 there needs to be another serious talk about raising the child because by that point the biological insistence of women caring more and men caring less subsides.  Otherwise the domestic out of balance will continue.  Note most habits are established in the first 6-12 months of a major event.  Ladies, if you aren't ok with your husband not pulling his domestic weight you need to communicated from the get go

Also blame work/life balance.  For most careers there is an expectation that you will work 50+ hours a week and won't be in and out throughout the day.  Hopefully with Covid that is changing.  I am in middle management and still work 40 hours a week problem is all my peers are putting more hours to try and get ahead.  Why because most upper management folks have a default parent who takes care of domestic and expect total dedication to the company.  I say this is bs Work smarter not harder people.  If I start being penalized for not being available I will seek work elsewhere.  More people have to do this to ever expect there to be true work/life balance.
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