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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: Update - DH moved out and we were separated for 6 months. We have since reconciled and have been back together for almost a year. We keep a whiteboard with chores, and his list is as long as mine. He picks up occasionally now and I’ve agreed that all toys gets tossed in the kiddos’ toy bibs at the end of the night. Technically, I guess it’s a success. We still live each other and want to stay together. Response to earlier post: Yes, spouses do seem to want a WOHM with 6 figures, chef-level cooking, maid, and laundress. I want that too! I am a terrible maid but I am a great cook (dad ran a restaurant, and I worked there) and bring home the bacon (actually easier in this area than OH, where DH lived). I treat, run, and fold laundry loads and bring them to the room by clothes owner but I can’t seem to put it away. [/quote] Bumping this thread because I wonder how things are during the pandemic. My marriage has so many similarities now with added pressure of juggling working at home and childcare simultaneously. I'm seriously thinking of divorce but it's also a time to come our wagons. I can hang on until the end of the year maybe. DH did give me credit for being a hoarder when to and disinfectant wipes were out everywhere. For the PPs too -- how's it going now?[/quote]
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