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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]The millennial therapists have a much more fluid definition of marriage and monogamy. They have been very different from the older therapists. The ones with 20+ years themselves under their belt and raised in a time where marriage and family were a sanctity counsel very differently. Now everything is open marriages and polygamy and not taking any moral view whatsoever.[/quote]

We understand that you have been traumatized by your situation, and it sounds like your DH's therapist had no real experience in dealing with infidelity.  You still need to stop with the generalizations/stereotypes and bright-line rules, because you are undermining your own position.  You don't have to be married for 20 years to understand the importance of transparency and honesty.  You are understandably bitter, but need to have better perspective or risk being disregarded as simply a scorned spouse with an agenda.[/quote]

NP. I’m a millennial and I agree with her general sentiment. [/quote]

Me too.  100% That was a therapist responding.  You can tell by the language.  [/quote]

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