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As to where to look, among all my friends who are 30s and 40s men and UMC to UC, none of them use the dating apps you mention. Some are on sugar dating sites (the only sites out there where women outnumber men), and others meet socially. These days, if you want to meet someone socially, you'll need to make the first move and be very clear about it (maybe even asking the person out). A lot of men I know are wary at doing this at networking/work events for fear of the metoo stuff. At a purely social event, it's less of a concern, but just realize this if it's a professional event.[/quote]

This just isn't true.  Online dating is your greatest field in which to find a guy.  Let's say you go to a social event, maybe you see a few guys who may (or may not) be available.  They may be married, gay, asexual, etc.  You just don't know what their situation is.  Sure, there is a chance you'll meet a single, heterosexual guy looking for someone like you, but more likely than not, you won't.  Online dating, supplemented by getting out and meeting as many people as possible, is the way to go.  There are lots of guys available online, it's just a matter of filtering and then meeting the ones that interest you.  Of course, the more picky you are, the fewer there are to meet.  If you are open to age, height, race and profession, there are no shortage of 30-something men that will likely go out with you if you have decent photos and a semi-interesting write up.[/quote]

OP is looking for UMC men. At least among all the men I know who meet this criteria, none of them are on Tinder or the typical apps. I haven't quizzed them that much on it, but my guess is they value their time and there's a lot of time to be wasted on there. I'm guessing every woman on there gets a sea of messages to filter through, and a busy UMC man isn't going to spend a lot of time crafting a great message to hope it gets viewed in the woman's inbox of hundreds.[/quote]

Idk. Are lawyers upc? I see them online a lot [/quote]

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