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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I’m sorry this is so tough for you. I have a sibling who has a messy life and I love her dearly and I always disrupted my life to help her out. It didn’t end well, which is it’s own sad story, but the point is, I do understand where you are coming from. In the end, your mother is an adult and need to fix her own problems, and you can be supportive, but it’s not your job to fix them. Your last post shows you know this, but you really need to believe it. Her current situation is due to a lifetime of choices, and she needs to decide to make different choices if she is h happy with the outcome. You cannot fix her problems, she needs to fix them. As I said, I know this is easier said than done, but your primary responsibility is to your child and to yourself. Don’t give your mom resources (that she doesn’t seem to want or appreciate) that would deprive you and your child of a more stable financial future. [/quote]
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