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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry OP but being blindsided by a cheating spouse means you are completely oblivious with your head in the sand!! There’s noway in hell I could ever be blindsided because I’m too  astute to my relationship and my DH. The only way he could get away with anything would be if he was meeting someone during  the day M thru F briefly but zero contact after 5 when he gets home and on weekends.   I’m sure your Spouse was MIA, sneaking off for phone calls or lots of others unexplained habits.  My gf told me one time her  DH  didn’t come home cause he got a flat tire and she  just laughed  it off  :roll:  I can’t even handle that kind of oblivion. [/quote]

Ha. May you be so lucky never to be deceived in such a way.

Nope. He was always at work when he said he would be. I work full-time from home.  We did everything together and were still having sex regularly. Zero warning signs.

He never had overnight work trips or went out with boys.  We even worked out together and often drive the kids to  practices together.  He threw a blowout bday party for me 2 months ago, thoughtfully planned.

[b]They met on Fridays during his work hours.  In her house.  He used a burner email account something I had never heard of.[/b]

If you asked neighbors, friends, families or my children if they ever would suspect this—hell no.  22 years of what seemed a happy marriage/family.

Btw, my dad was terminally ill from cancer when he started this up and died last year.  So, yeah, I guess you could say I was preoccupied. But, he was a champ watching the kids and talking to them about their beloved grandpa and helping my mom too.

So—yeah—blindsided is pretty apt.  [/quote]

well, yeah, that blows the other woman's theory.  would you know if your husband had an hour or so in another woman's house during regular work hours?  do you talk to him 24/7 while he's at work?[/quote]

Sorry I’m not buying it. And the fact you were preoccupied with your father says a lot. I’m sure there was a lot more going on than you even noticed because of this.  There’s noway your DH was carrying  on an affair only on Fridays!!  I guarantee if I was his spouse his ass would’ve been caught a long time ago.  FBI agent here  and I’ve caught everyone I’ve ever dated with all kinds of spy gadgets. It’s not that hard once you get that feeling.   FYI the only women that are ok with an afternoon romp are prostitutes.  Just saying. [/quote]

She’s married. A SAHM genius.  I have all of the information. Confirmed (not by him) as well. But, thanks for having my back.[/quote]

How did he even meet a SAHM? The gym? Already part of his social circle?[/quote]

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