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Reply to "I'm afraid I've seriously damaged my children's lives - need perspective "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I called NAMI, got the Virginia line, and spent 55 minutes on the phone with a wonderful woman. She echoed everything that has been said here: my girls need me, she should not come between us if she loved me, etc. So now I am absolutely stuck[b] about when and how to act. [/b] I feel like calling and telling her after will absolutely explode everything (my life, health, housing, job, etc) and I am terrified. [/quote] Did NAMI provide any ideas for getting therapy? Because you're not in a good state to take major steps and you need professional help to figure out manageable steps you can start with. But for example the IRS. With all the craziness they may be too busy to come after you, but if there's any chance they could sieze assets you currently do have you might consider talking to them. Heck, call them anonymously to get a feel for how things could be handled. Anyway, why do you need to get clearance from your wife to talk to your own kids? Oh, you don't. Try doing ONE THING without getting her permission. Call NAMI back and ask them to help you find therapy. [/quote]
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