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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here— Yes, we both had long term-ish relationships since our divorce. This is both our second serious relationship and we want it to be our last. We are committed. He’s fine inconveniencing himself by being at my house solely but he also wants his kids on board and he thinks that by having me casually be there from time to time will help so they get to know me. It is happening with his sons. It isn’t happening with his daughter. I met her two years ago and she wasn’t this hostile at 14 but at that point, I really kept my distance so we never got to bond. And one day she totally turned. My boyfriend thinks she’s settling into rebellious behavior and wants her way always. She’s like that with many aspects of her life. I’m just discussing the parts that have to do with me. I don’t care if she talks back and throws hissy fits because her dad makes her put her laundry away. That’s their issue. [/quote] Have you tried spending time with her? Take her out alone shopping or out to eat and let her get to know you?[/quote] That I have not. She would say no. We have tried to find activities she can’t resist and she’s come to two of those-a baseball game and a movie. [/quote]
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