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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I wanted to sit back and watch this unfold. I'm a man. My wife was screwing her colleague. She would never have stopped. I found out by accident (several actually)

I had considered trying fixing things but I couldn't move past the fact that she actually didn't care that she was caught and destroyed our family. The only way this ended o its own was through fizzling out or moving. And that's the part that grossed me out the most. She was fine to play wife and family while the rest of us werent playing at all. We thought we were living real lives.[/quote]

"And that's the part that grossed me out the most. She was fine to play wife and family while the rest of us werent playing at all. We thought we were living real lives."   So very true[/quote]

Are you still together, OP?

The impact on kids, especially if they are made to play happy families with a succession of new adults (and possibly other kids) on holidays, is huge.

OP, I am sorry you had that experience, many of us here can relate. It takes years before you can trust your instincts again, even if the relationship ends. The feeling of betrayal and not being able to trust your reality is so hurtful. [/quote]

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