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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My problem is being forced into picking up slack on the child maintenance in additional to my own half and family functionality, then being expected to change hats within seconds and become a "wife".  Maybe if DH didn't dump all this crap on my plate and helped get the kids in bed by a decent time and balancing the mental load, Id be more "wifey" and less "neglectful" of his needs. If I get 15 minutes to myself at the end of the day at home, it't not going to be spend servicing DH.  If i have to plan every single date including calling a sitter, it's already too much; I'd rather just stay home.  [/quote]

If he’s such a selfish a hole then leave the jerk!

But if you stay yet don’t want to be wifey, accept that he will find another woman for that.[/quote]

So again the responsibility of making you a reasonable husband falls on the wife!  All home/kids/relationship decisions fall on the wife and then you say it’s ok to cheat on her because she doesn’t have time for you.  Just learn to be reasonable person on your own.  Everything doesn’t have to be her responsibility.[/quote]

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