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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP hear with an update: I asked DH about working on becoming more intimate. [b] His response was to look toward his pants and say "what can I do?[/b]"  When I saw potential FWB on a recent business trip, we talked and kissed (and even fully clothed it was VERY VERY hot) but I couldn't bring myself to do more. I don't want to ruin friendship with potential FWB or hurt DH.  But, as potential FWB left the room, he kissed me and said he wants to pick this up where it left off, next time... It was hot and I can't stop thinking about it.  [/quote]
IMO, that's pretty much saying, "go look elsewhere".[/quote]

For the 100th time (and so those can hear this in the back) a sexless marriage is a de facto Open marriage. While it's a reasonable courtesy to first inform your sexless spouse that you are going elswhere, that is not required, and is no worse than the sexless spouse's failure to proactively open the marriage. Enjoy some guilt free fun with your FWB next time! [/quote]

Well if this is the case, then OP and all the people stepping out shouldn’t have any issue telling their spouses what they’re doing. [/quote]

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