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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Without question, based on OP's latest post, there is definitely an emotional attachment by both sides going on.  OP, you are a bit of a nervous person and a bit clueless, but you have every reason to be suspicious about this.  Watch it closely.

Guy here, btw.[/quote]

+1 and don't think that because she's not his type or is fat and frumpy that would prevent anything from happening. It sounds like you trust him not to have an affair, but what about an emotional affair?[/quote]

Op here. Thank you for this. I do trust him but I also can see how this could turn I to an emotional affair down the road hence why I brought up my feelings to him. With that said and with your knowledge of a guy, why do men seek emotional friends / emotional affairs in your opinion?

We have a very healthy sex life and marriage but it seems like every year or two he slowly becomes emotionally attached to some female at work. We also talk about his work often from his likings. He enjoys talking to me about his day and what goes on. We truly are great friends with great communication which is also why he told me right away about the gift.

But if we talk about life and work daily, are best friends and have a very healthy sex life why do these keep happening?

Thx[/quote]

People develop friendships with their co-workers. Don’t get hung up by their gender. You sound hopelessly 1950’s and insecure. Maybe he wants to talk to a woman who does not think like Laura Pétri[/quote]

It is very normal for people to get friendly with their co-workers. The women he befriends are likely strong and independent...perhaps you should take a lesson from that. You sound like think your job is to "guard" your husband from those predatory female co-workers. It is not healthy if your whole identity revolves around him. Think about your life and your days. Make them more interesting and perhaps you were worry less about what your husband is doing at work. [/quote]

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