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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure what answer you want to hear so I will be as blunt as possible, and I expect you may eyeroll but here's my anonymous honest answer:.

Monogamy is completely [b]unnatural[/b] for all men, probably also for most women.  So that desire to sleep with other women fluctuates from something that seems like fun to a complete obsession.  Part of what drives it is whether he is sexually happy at home.  I have heard men say this, candidly, something like "she looks wild but I wouldn't risk it because my wife is wilder.". So again it does matter if you keep him sexually satisfied but it's not a guarantee.

Also, I promise you a lot of men really are sexually deprived. My situation, sex in 2019 is in single digits.  A decade of conversations has changed nothing. You suggest divorce like it's as easy as a dentist visit, without considering the massive disruption to my kids, among others.

Anyway, there are no guarantees, but much like your health, you can eat and exercise and lower your chances of sudden death, but even people who do it all can still drop dead.  Monogamy is the biggest problem and if they have options most but not all men cave at some point[/quote]

What is your definition of natural? I think about it as eating healthy: is it natural or do you need to make a conscious choice? Given a chance, most of people will cave at some point into eating junk food. But if you have some brain, you don't let your stomach dictate your life. Same is with sex: you should not let your penis dictate your life. Man can think, look at or desire another women -- but weather to act on those desires or not, it is up to men's moral values. [/quote]

Using your food analogy, imagine if he is starving because their is no food at home. Now imagine someone put the most delicious food in front of him and no one is watching.

That doesn't account for all cheating scenarios but it does account for some and explains why some good people can make a mistake. Feed your partner and younlessen but not eliminate the risk.  [/quote]

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