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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure what answer you want to hear so I will be as blunt as possible, and I expect you may eyeroll but here's my anonymous honest answer:.

Monogamy is completely unnatural for all men, probably also for most women.  So that desire to sleep with other women fluctuates from something that seems like fun to a complete obsession.  Part of what drives it is whether he is sexually happy at home.  I have heard men say this, candidly, something like "she looks wild but I wouldn't risk it because my wife is wilder.". So again it does matter if you keep him sexually satisfied but it's not a guarantee.

Also, I promise you a lot of men really are sexually deprived. My situation, sex in 2019 is in single digits.  A decade of conversations has changed nothing. You suggest divorce like it's as easy as a dentist visit, without considering the massive disruption to my kids, among others.

Anyway, there are no guarantees, but much like your health, you can eat and exercise and lower your chances of sudden death, but even people who do it all can still drop dead.  Monogamy is the biggest problem and if they have options most but not all men cave at some point[/quote]

You’re right about the eye roll.  Men who think sex with their wives is good will not cheat and vice versa.  You’ve got the cause and effect reversed in your post.

Monogamy is completely natural to me and so I get tired of this monogamy not being crap.  It’s what you expect of yourself.  Your attitude has been that it’s not requisite in your marriage and so of course you don’t expect monogamy to be natural.  You’ve got it backwards.

Just because divorce isn’t easy doesn’t mean it’s not the right purse. You should never have gotten married if you didn’t believe in monogamy.  Just divorce.  It will be awesome for you.  No monogamy pressures.  [/quote]

All men want and desire other women. 100% of them. Not 99%. So the question is what makes a man resist what he wants with all his desire.  Lack of opportunities is one. Sexually satisfied is another.  Impulse control.  Something to lose.  That's your list.[/quote]

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