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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a side piece or OW/FWB with someone much older and I love it, because I’m not involved with anything very serious right now. I’ve been with him on and off in an FWB thing, and I’ve dated other people on and off. Were I to end up in something more serious, I’d probably let go of the sexual part of our relationship.

This guy is in a long term partnership/relationship with his girlfriend. I know for sure he’s had another affair years ago and it’s possible she’s been with someone else as well. They may have a dont ask/don’t tell agreement, though it’s not really my business. The thing is we are all friends and have a lot of mutual friends and I think some people might suspect. This particular circle of friends has a more casual view of sex as it is, but the main thing is that we are extremely attracted to each other and it’s hard to let go. It’s not really good for either of us because I should find someone I can actually be with and he is cheating nonetheless even though he isn’t actually married. I’ve just gotten spoiled by the great sex and I every time I try to make it happen with someone else it’s just...meh. [/quote]

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Scanned the 1st and last sentence. The rest is probably self absorbed “my story is different” BS.

Nobody wants you so you settle to be a side piece. You might find a worthwhile partner if you stop and work on yourself. Right now you don’t deserve better. There is hope though, get therapy.[/quote]
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The bottom line is - no one is a side piece who could be a wife.[/quote]

That is simply not true.[/quote]

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