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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ I’m not the PP you are responding to, but are you proud of yourself for your crass and immature response?  It’s now very clear why you are seeking to date much younger women - you are obviously trying to find people of your own maturity level.  I’m sure women your own age would have no interest ina conversation with you.[/quote]

I don't write well enough to be proud of it.  As for, crass and immature?  It's an online forum.  Enough said.  I do like the maturity level of the women I date and I have a lot of fun with that age range although they are still middle aged, typically divorced, and have older children so I'm not sure how much more mature they need to be.  As for women my age not wanting me?  You have no idea.  If I put my profile up on a dating site with my real age, it's scary how many women my age contact me.  That's OK, there are very few women my age who can hold my interest.  Sorry, I know that's a hard truth for you.  You better cling to your marriage and make sure your husband is satisfied in bed because that's what it's like out there for "women my age."  Is that immature and crass enough for you?[/quote]

wow, this is unbelievable.

I guess women have no worth except for the sex they bring to a man in a relationship.  Maybe women have worth if they are young and if they offer sex, otherwise nada.  How about those daughters of yours?  Do they have any value to a man besides being young and offer sex?

This is the jist of a lot of what gets posted on these forums by men....divorce a wife after kids leave home because of sex, have AP's for sex until kids leave home, date younger women because of better looks/sex.

Is there any other narrative from men?  Should women just give up anything else in their lives and just focus on sex?  Why go to college, just study how to make sure your partner has great sex and that's it.  [/quote]

You sure make a lot of assumptions.  I'm an older single man. Not divorced.  I'm dating and have preferences that include younger women.  I make no apologies for that.  Sex is not my only criteria in a good relationship, but it's right up there.  Definitely a deal breaker.  Not everyone has the same has high sex drive, but I still do and I'm not willing to settle for a partner who doesn't share my desires.  Why should I?  Again, I'm single, not stuck in a sexless marriage.  An older man is not what every woman wants for sure.  But I've been happy with women I've dated who have their own reasons for preferring an older man.  Again, I'm not dating 20 year olds (OK, to be honest there have been two, didn't work out past 2nd date with either-no surprise).

As for, "I guess women have no worth except for the sex they bring to a man in a relationship."  Of course you have more worth than the sex you share with your man.  I apologize if I sounded threatening but at the same time, don't be naive and underestimate the importance of sex to a partner who still enjoys it on a regular basis.  It goes equally for men also.  If you don't value your sex life with your partner as much as your partner values it, or as much as you used to, then you are wise to feel like your marriage is threatened.  The exception is where both partners have come to a point where they have little desire for sex and are equally happy to not have it.  I don't remember reading a single thread here but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen.  Those folks aren't complaining.[/quote]

So I appreciate the change in tone of this post.  Your previous posts were quite dismissive of women.

I’m personally not threatened by what you wrote as I have no reason to be threatened.  Nevertheless your message still remains the same about what’s important in a woman(at least to you).  It’s disconcerting but it’s also one man’s view only.  Good luck to you in your chase for what you’re looking for.[/quote]

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