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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder how much of this is just people balking at someone having a $775k HHI. OP it sounds like you could benefit from therapy. [b]Your marriage sounds hostile and lonely.[[/b]/quote] 100% this. This guy's gone 12 hours a day, doesn't help at all when he's there, it doesn't sound like he is emotionally present, and he pressured you to get pregnant yet doesn't think you need or deserve any help or breaks. You're basically expected to be "on" 24/7. Given your financial situation, I would negotiate - maybe not 24/7 help, but a mother's helper during the day and a night nurse a few nights per week for the first few months. And yeah, therapy. Not a happy marriage. [/quote]
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