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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Monogamy is not for everyone. Don’t judge. You have no right. You do not know the other’s journey. [/quote]

Sure and deceitful behavior is [b]Definitely NOT[/b] what you should do either. You should be upfront and discuss any sec related shortcomings in your relationship/marriage/situation and resolve them like mature adults. If that necessitates polyamory or extra marital sex per the couple's agreement then so be it. Better to tell me you want  action with other men or walk away than possibly passing on an STD and spewing BS drivel about not being satisfied.[/quote]

+1.  Right on point.   No one is saying you have to believe in monogamy but you do have to align with your partner on this as opposed to lying/cheating on them.[/quote]
You think that a spouse who consistently rejects sex (for years) is unaware of their partner’s sexual dissatisfaction? On what planet is that breaking news to the one who actively avoids any chance for intimacy? Why is it necessary to verbally inform them that they have won, and you no longer even want 
sex with them? You really think that conversation will improve this marriage?[/quote]

Lying cheating man.[/quote]

So lying and cheating are horrible, but rejecting sex is perfectly fine.
We will count PP and the other PP as 2 more votes agreeing with the “declare open marriage” poster.
This is sounding like the correct answer. [/quote]

One of the open poster you referenced.  I didn't say declare an open marriage, i said align with your wife.  Not the same thing.
Frankly, if you're going to go back to its not fair that the wife doesn't have sex, I'll go back further and say what the neck did you do to keep the marriage and married life great.  And it would have to be wife's perspective, not yours.

See how this works?

No matter, none of your excuses still justify an affair.  Just divorce.o  [/quote]

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