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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've read every page of this thread and feel like something is missing in the "divorce messes up the kids" discussion. In every example cited, the divorce sounds like it was contentious (moving kids multiple times across the country to avoid their father - that's an extreme case, but JFC). Custody battles, badmouthing...of course that's terrible for anyone near the couple. I feel like it's not the divorce that messes up the kids. It's how the ex-spouses handle their divorce and post-divorce co-parenting.[/quote] No. It's the divorce itself. Human beings are wired to need a sense of security, which throughout all of history has been in the form of a mother and father raising them in an intact home. Just because some of you like to think you are so far beyond that now doesn't make it the reality at all.[/quote]
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