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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just be prepared for things like: complaining about aide or aide complaining to you, aide quitting or mom firing aide. mom trying to get aide to side with her against you both, etc. I have learned to have low expectations for everything and any improvement, no matter how temporary is a win. If an aide lasts a few months-win. Mom stops complaining for a week or 2-win. [/quote] Gosh, you're right. I didn't even think of that. My mother did get the hospice social worker on her side by saying that her children weren't being attention enough to her. And the social worker is trained for that type and still criticized us for not doing enough. [/quote]
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